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The Courage of Finishing Last
This is for anyone who feels behind but is brave enough to begin.
There Is No Such Thing as One-Way Liberation
You may not have just lost something. You may have been liberated. And with that liberation comes the possibility of noticing what became available once you were no longer holding what could not stay.
What If “If They Wanted To, They Would” Is Only Half the Story?
We love neat phrases that make heartbreak feel logical. “If they wanted to, they would” sounds clean and certain—but real life rarely is. People don’t all arrive with the same emotional capacity, readiness, or courage. Sometimes someone wants you deeply and still can’t show up, not because you aren’t worthy, but because their heart isn’t healed enough to hold what they desire. This essay explores the space between wanting and being ready—and why God cares about that gap far more than we realize.
Simple, Not Easy
As a lover of detailed stories, Genesis frustrates me—and teaches me. God doesn’t always give us the why. He invites us into obedience instead.
The Real Cost of Avoiding Healing
This year, I am thankful for pain—not because it didn’t hurt, but because it revealed what needed healing and made me someone I never want to go back from.
What It Means to Be Gracefully Broken
Best Version of Me
God often does His deepest work in me when I’m hurting, but the best version of myself appears in the in-between — when the pain is still real, the healing has begun, and gratitude opens my eyes again.
Toxic
The word ‘toxic’ is so overused that it no longer means anything, yet the one place I’ve truly shown toxic patterns is in my relationship with God—who never calls me toxic in return
My Experience in Jamaica
The Truth
I thought I’d never again face the darkness I felt at 18—until a heartbreak triggered old lies. But God met me with truth, love, and a reminder that He is not done with me.
Uncomfortable
Grace
Love Letters
Narratives…
Overreactions
Frequency
I Did Not Want To Handle This At All…
The Silence of Suffering
Processing